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We are not failing. We have already failed. Deal with it.

Lets accept this fact for Nepal.

We are not failing. We have already failed. Deal with it.

Nepal is 30th Failed state of the world according to this report here.

So how do we deal with it? And how do we move on?

Here are 3 important life-choices you will have to make to play a role in turning our country around:

Take the political path:  Want to serve your country fore-most? Take the lead and join politics. Politics is an ultimate sacrifice if you want the change you seek in Nepal now.  If your priority is saving your conscience, your family, your town and your country all in one, you will prepare yourself to lead us all out of this mess! No earlier experience required: you learn as you go. Simplify your life. Try to live a life of example. Beware, Politics is like fire. You can either make it a good servant or a bad master, all up to you. Note: Do not make politics a career. Make sure, you have an alternative livelihood which sustains your family.

Take the entrepreneurial path: Don’t shy away from your national duty to offer opportunities in Nepal. Do urge your kids to learn entrepreneurship right from mid-school. Teach them the value of prosperity, and how to create dignified opportunities by becoming an entrepreneur. Tell them how, providing opportunities for others is one of the best social service in a country like ours. Those of us, who are not entrepreneurial, please invest in those who are taking risks! You will never feel sorry.

Take the bureaucratic path: Join Nepal government and serve the people. If the bureaucrats in the government did their job, we wouldn’t need this many social organizations where many of us continue to make a career out of. Joining the bureaucracy is perhaps one of the best ways to do social service in Nepal now. And the surest way to see the change you seek in your environment.

All these paths need persistence, patience and humility. They bring the best in you and help thwart the worst in you to prevail. Continue to hone these qualities much, they will bring you that feeling of contentment one gets as s/he lives a life of purpose.

I hope you will make a clear choice to deal with our nation’s failure now… because if this country burns, we burn with it…


Plan A or Plan B

Plan A: Mind your business and stay silent.

By doing so, Nepal bandhs will keep happening. Load-shedding will only increase. Foods will keep getting expensive. Youths will keep leaving the country. Your daily news will be full of political, economic, social failures.
Existing political forces will win every upcoming elections. They will keep up their stranglehold on power and slowly bring the country into ruins. You will try to run away from the country or stay here and accept slavery to survive or for your family’s sake.

Plan B: If you can’t find an alternative, Become an alternative.

Plan B involves building or supporting alternatives. How about joining or building positive political forces of our generation that will dare to uproot these existing incompetent political forces who are holding us back. or become an entrepreneur or public servant?

I am one part of Plan B.  I am helping build a political force “BibekSheel Nepali” with many other Nepalis of our generation. I am investing my everything into this cause.  Join us in making a peaceful, prosperous Nepal.

So, my friend, it is time for you to choose in Nepal. Is it going to be Plan A or Plan B ? 

or do you have a plan C you want to share with us?

12 words Polluted by Nepali politicians this year.

१२ नेपाली शव्दहरु यो बर्ष नेपालका राजनितिज्ञहरु र विज्ञहरुले धमिलाएका र गनाउने बनाईएकाछन्। यीनैहरुलाई पखाल्न बर्षौ लाग्ने छ।

  1. सहमति
  2. प्याकेज-डिल
  3. स्वभाद्रपूर्ण
  4. वार्ता
  5. सर्वसत्तावाद
  6. सर्वसम्मति
  7. भागवन्डा
  8. अनुसन्धान समिति
  9. प्रभु
  10. नेता
  11. लोकतन्त्र
  12. युवा

7 tips on How to create successful relationships?

How to create Successful relationships:

  1. Be willing to support our purpose, values, rules and goals
  2. Speak with good purpose. If it doesn’t serve, don’t say it. No making people wrong, justifying, or defending.
  3. If you disagree or do not understand, ask clarifying questions. Don’t make the other person wrong.
  4. Make only agreements you are willing and intend to keep.
  5. If you can’t keep an agreement, communicate as soon as practical to the appropriate person. Clear any broken agreement at the first appropriate opportunity.
  6. When something is not working, first look to the system for correction, and then propose a system based solution to the person who can do something about it.
  7. Be responsible. No blaming, no defending, no justifying, and no shaming.

The above points are quoted from the book: “The Success principles”. I highly recommend you buy this book for managing your life better.

Feel Free to Steal My Content. This blog is open-sourced now!

There is no limit what a man can do or where he can go, if he doesn’t mind who gets the credit.
— Robert Woodruff

I get a lot of emails asking me for permission to reprint my articles in on other blogs, in newsletters, in conferences and in classrooms. I get requests to translate certain posts, or my entire blog, into other languages.
So I’m granting full permission to use any of my content (but not the guest written articles who you will have ask them) on in any way you like. If unsure, just ask. I release my copyright on all content I own here.
From now on, there is no need to email or Facebook me for permission. Use it however you want! Email it, share it, reprint it with or without credit. Change it around, put in a bunch of swear words and attribute them to me. It’s OK. :)

While you are under no obligation to do so, I would appreciate it if you give me credit for any work of mine that you use, and ideally, link back to the original. but if your friends want to share any of my content here with friends, they have every right to do so without mentioning where they got it from.

The substance, the bulk, the actual and valuable material of all human utterances—is plagiarism.
–Mark Twain

Why I’m releasing copyright
I’m not a big fan of copyright laws anyway, especially as they’re being applied these days by corporations, used to crack down on the little guys so they can continue their large profits.
Copyrights are often touted as protecting the artist, but usually the artist gets very little while the corporations make most of the money. I’m trying this experiment to see whether releasing copyright really hurts the creator of the content.
I think, in most cases, the protectionism touted by “anti-piracy” campaigns and lawsuits and lobbying actually hurts the artist. Limiting distribution to protect profits isn’t a good thing.
The lack of copyright, and blatant copying by other artists and even businesses, never hurt Leonardo da Vinci when it comes to images such as the Mona Lisa, the Last Supper, or the Vitruvian Man. It’s never hurt Shakespeare or our own Laxmi Prasad Devkota. I doubt that it’s ever really hurt any artist (although I might just be ignorant here).
And while I’m no da Vinci or Shakespeare or Laxmi Prasad Devkota, I can’t help but wonder whether copyright hurts me or helps me. If someone feels like sharing my content on their blog, or in any other form for that matter, that seems like a good thing for me. If someone wanted to share my articles with 100 friends, I don’t see how that hurts me. My work is being spread to many more people than I could do myself. That’s a plus, as I see it.
And if someone wants to take my work and improve upon it, as artists have done for centuries, I think that’s a wonderful thing. If they can take my favorite posts and make something funny or inspiring or thought-provoking or even sad … I say more power to them. The creative community only benefits from derivations and inspirations.
This isn’t a new concept, of course, and I’m freely ripping ideas off here. Which is kinda the point.

Counter arguments and all that
There are a number of objects that will likely be brought up to this idea, and while I can’t possibly answer all of them, here are a few of my responses in anticipation:

Google rank will go down. My understanding is that Google penalizes pages that have exact duplicates on other sites, when it comes to PageRank. I don’t know how much of a penalty that is. If people duplicate my content (which they already are, even without permission), it’s possible that my PageRank will drop and people will have a harder time finding my content on Google search. If that’s the case, I accept that penalty. I’ve never been one to go for SEO techniques anyway, so this is nothing new to me.

Who knows what people will do with your work?
Someone could take my work, turn it into a piece of … baloney … and put my name on it. They could translate it with all kinds of errors. They could … well, they could do just about anything. But that kind of thinking stems from a mind that wants to control content … while I think that you can’t control it, and even if you can, it’s not a good thing. What if someone takes my work and turns it into something brilliant, and becomes the next James Joyce? Or more likely, what if they take the work and extend the concepts and make it even more useful, to even more people? Release control, and see what happens. People are wonderful, creative creatures. Let’s see what they can do.

You’re making other bloggers look bad.
Perhaps, if you want to see things in a negative light. But I’m not doing this as a challenge to other bloggers, or as a comment on their policies. I’m doing it simply to stay in line with my values. And who knows? Maybe others will be inspired by this in some way. Or maybe they won’t. Either way, please don’t judge others based on what I do.

What if someone publishes a book with all your content and makes a million dollars off it?
I hope they at least give me credit. And my deepest desire is that they give some of that money to a good cause.

But … but … they’re stealing from you! You can’t steal what is given freely. I call this sharing, not piracy.

Just to clarify, this post is an official notification that my writing here at is now in the public domain.

I hereby waive all claim of copyright in my work here; it may be used or altered in any way without attribution or notice to the me. Attribution, of course, is appreciated. :)


I have stolen much of the content from Leo Babauta to make my case a for copy-right free .He started this trend for me, and inspired me to do this long time ago. I just had not put it in writing. Today I did. And in fact he doesn’t mind  as written here.

Inspirations: Free Culture, by Lawrence Lessig; and GNU by Richard Stallman, Zen habits by Leo Babauta